When Intimacy and Anonymity Meet Fetish Skype Sex Gets Explosive
Normally when I write here about fetish skype shows I tend to focus on the shows themselves, but today I want to do something a little different. I had a fetish skype show experience tonight that totally blew me away and I feel compelled to write about it, not just because the experience itself was awesome but because it revealed something unique and important about fetish skype sex, namely the ability it affords us to explore fantasies and desires that we aren’t quite ready to unleash upon the world.
As I’ve written before, one of my fav things about fetish skype shows is that they are once totally anonymous and totally intimate. As a result it’s the perfect venue for exploring desires without having to worry about how those desires may be perceived by close family and friends. Tonight was a perfect example of that, when a regular playmate worked up the courage to add an extra element to our roleplay that we hadn’t explored up until that point. Even before we got on cam he admitted that the new element was difficult for him to even articulate, but I’m so glad we did because holy fuck the experience was intense. Simply put: I’d never seen him quite that turned on during our prior sessions.
I felt pretty honored that he chose me as his partner in acting out his private fantasy, and even more so knowing that in doing so he had revealed something intensely personal and private that wasn’t all that easy for him to articulate initially. It didn’t occur to me at the time but thinking about the fetish skype show session later it hit me: THIS is what skype sex is all about. No matter where on the globe we reside we all live in societies that place rigid (and frankly quite boring) rules on what’s considered ‘normal’, and truth is sex is about exploring; exploring what turns us on, what fascinates us, what really makes us tick. The anonymity of cam sex enables us all to explore those fantasies and desires in ways we may not feel comfortable exploring off cam in ‘real life’ and that’s what makes it more than just a passive exchange of orgasms. It’s about revealing ourselves in a shared and safe private space.
I knew all that intellectually before, I mean hell I’ve written about it enough, but tonight really showed me exactly HOW the safe space of fetish skype sex allows us to explore things we may not feel comfortable doing otherwise. Not all fetish skype shows are profound, nor do they need to be, but this one was and it felt awesome. To the totally anonymous individual who shared that wicked experience with me, huge thanks for letting me share such a potent and private fantasy.
It was awesome, as are you 🙂