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Xavier, An Awesome Accompaniment to Fetish Webcam Sex

What is it about strap on fetish webcam sex? Before I got my strap on Xavier I honestly didn’t know what I was missing, but as soon as I received him as a gift from an awesome individual known here as D it was like he was a natural extension of me, not only of my body but of my mind as well.

Judging from the reaction I get during my fetish webcam sex shows it’s obvious y’all feel the same. Considering how popular my magnificent strap on cock Xavier is, sometimes I think he should have his own website. πŸ˜€ I’m writing about Xavier here on my fetish webcam sex blog because last night I received a skype message that actually made me laugh out loud; a playmate messaged with a ‘hello Lady J, is Xavier available tonight? I must see him’. What the fuck am I, the side attraction? πŸ˜€ Truth is though, I love weilding Xavier during my fetish webcam sex shows, he’s by far the most fun toy I’ve ever owned and when I wear him I can’t keep my hands off him. The moment I slip him on an incredibly Dominant and powerful side of my personality emerges, as in ‘rawr Lady J is in tha house, bow down and pay homage’, and you fall to your knees, lips parted to take a good face fucking. πŸ™‚

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Ultimately though my favorite aspect of my strap on Xavier is his versatility. Β His magnificent size makes him perfect for small penis humiliation, and he’s an excellent tutor in the fine art of cock sucker training. He adds a certain gravitas to my muscle domination webcam sex sessions, and he’s in turns sensual and menacing during my Femdom cam sessions, depending upon my whims and what my victim, erm, playmate deserves at the moment. πŸ˜€

In short, he’s awesome and he takes my fetish webcam sex shows to an entirely different level. That y’all adore him as much as I do simply means your taste in strap on cocks is as fine as your taste in nerdy independent camgirls. I have no problem sharing the spotlight with a strap on cock this divine.

How to Explore Fetish Cam Sex

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Fetish Cam Sex Should be Personalized

As a fetish camgirl there’s nothing that makes me cringe more than a guy who contacts me asking for “something kinky”. I mean, seriously. Could this possibly be any more vague? πŸ™‚ The reason why I cringe is that while the whole point of fetish cam sex is to explore desire, an implicit corollary to that is the point that fetish cam sex should be individualized. A fetish cam sex show I do with one guy won’t necessarily translate to an intense experience if explored with a completely different person. Every individual is unique and therefore so should be the shows themselves, which is why I’d argue that paint-by-numbers fetish cam sex is an oxymoronic term. I can’t just create a scenario all by myself.

Still, every one has to start somewhere, right? Not all that long ago some of the forms of fetish cam sex I enjoy the most were brand new to me, so I don’t expect that everyone who wants to explore kink is an expert on the subject. In fact some of my favorite fetish cam sex shows are ones where I introduce guys to a new form of roleplay or fetish, as it’s awesome seeing the excitement that can emerge when exploring the unknown. I have a pretty creative mind and I love to suggest new roleplay and fetish scenarios, that’s a huge part of what makes cam sex fun for me.Β Still, I’m not a mind reader. πŸ™‚ What’s kinky to one individual may be boring as hell to another, and while fetish concepts transfer well to different fetish cam sex shows, fetish skype sex is always hotter when it’s personalized to every session.

How to Ask For Satisfying Fetish Cam Sex

Any fetish camgirl worth her salt will naturally bring a ton of creativity to her fetish cam sex shows, but in order to ensure you actually receive an experience that blows your mind you need to fantasize a bit about what you want. Ironically this is even more important if you don’t know what you want. πŸ™‚ Close your eyes and let you mind wander…what is she wearing in your mind? Do you want to feel seized and molded to suit her whims or do you want to control the action? In your fantasy does the power shift mid way? What is your favorite part of the female body? Is she bitchy and cruel, innocent and inexperienced, seductive and sensual? Even the most seemingly insignificant details can provide a wicked jumping off point, so let your fetish camgirl know what is in your head and she can go from there…crafting a fetish cam sex experience personalized to what makes you tick.

Fetish Cam Sex is Uninhibited and Exploratory

While I love it when guys share their fully-formed fantasies and desires with me, introducing me to something new, some of my favorite fetish cam sex experiences have been ones that are a meander down what I like to call the garden path. At the beginning neither of us know exactly how to experience will turn out but we jump into it anyways, feeding off each other’s energy and excitement to create something awesome. You don’t need to be an expert in kink to experience wicked fetish cam sex, but you are an integral part of the experience. To get what will really drive you wild you have to be willing to share your fantasies and be a part of the creation, not a passive observer of someone else’s idea of what’s hot.

To have wicked fetish cam sex be willing to talk about what you want after you book a skype show. Share your thoughts and fantasies and really participate in the process of creating the experience. The fetish cam sex experience will be far more intense if you do, because you’ll actually be a part of it.

Skype Sex Shows with a Side of Dirty Talk

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Probably one of my favorite things about doing skype sex shows rather than greeting my playmates on a webcam site is the skype audio feature. Sure, on the cam sites phone is always an option, but phone with cam can be a bit unwieldly in that it distracts the hands from other more orgasmic pursuits. πŸ™‚

I’ve been thinking about that today cuz today I’ve done a series of skype sex shows with some of the finest dirty-talkers I’ve ever encountered on cam, and the aural element added something amazing to each one. There’s something incredibly hot about hearing a man moan, beg, tease, command along with seeing him, and I really appreciate (and adore) guys who aren’t afraid to really let loose and go full out with dirty talk, no matter the scenario audio adds something special to the experience. Really wicked dirty talk doesn’t come naturally to many, and I know a lot of guys (and camgirls) struggle with it a bit at first, feeling self-conscious and unsure as to whether their words are cheesy instead of hot. Let me put all that to rest right here and now, there is no such thing as cheesy dirty talk when it’s done in the context of two people diving into a skype sex shows…I mean, it’s not like the blood is all in our brains at that point anyways. Truth is, Β I consider myself to be a wicked dirty talker and yet some of the things I say during my skype sex shows would make me laugh out loud if I said ’em off cam or out of bed. That’s my point; dirty talk should be stream of consciousness, it should be a little bit ridiculous.

So yeah, along with cam to cam, skype sex shows with dirty talk can transform an experience from an ‘idea’ that’s somewhat artificial into something that feels authentic and divine. I know not every guy can use audio during skype sex shows, but when you can you gotta go for it. Huge props to the guys who do go for it, and who do it so damn well. Those are the kinds of shows that make a camgirl think, ‘god damn that was hot’.

To meet me on skype for a private (and loud) skype sex show, visit my skype cam sex booking page and then turn up your volume and let your imagination run wild.

Sometimes Fetish Skype Shows Surprise Even Me

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When Intimacy and Anonymity Meet Fetish Skype Sex Gets Explosive

Normally when I write here about fetish skype shows I tend to focus on the shows themselves, but today I want to do something a little different. I had a fetish skype show experience tonight that totally blew me away and I feel compelled to write about it, not just because the experience itself was awesome but because it revealed something unique and important about fetish skype sex, namely the ability it affords us to explore fantasies and desires that we aren’t quite ready to unleash upon the world.

As I’ve written before, one of my fav things about fetish skype shows is that they are once totally anonymous and totally intimate. As a result it’s the perfect venue for exploring desires without having to worry about how those desires may be perceived by close family and friends. Tonight was a perfect example of that, when a regular playmate worked up the courage to add an extra element to our roleplay that we hadn’t explored up until that point. Even before we got on cam he admitted that the new element was difficult for him to even articulate, but I’m so glad we did because holy fuck the experience was intense. Simply put: I’d never seen him quite that turned on during our prior sessions.

I felt pretty honored that he chose me as his partner in acting out his private fantasy, and even more so knowing that in doing so he had revealed something intensely personal and private that wasn’t all that easy for him to articulate initially. It didn’t occur to me at the time but thinking about the fetish skype show session later it hit me: THIS is what skype sex is all about. No matter where on the globe we reside we all live in societies that place rigid (and frankly quite boring) rules on what’s considered ‘normal’, and truth is sex is about exploring; exploring what turns us on, what fascinates us, what really makes us tick. The anonymity of cam sex enables us all to explore those fantasies and desires in ways we may not feel comfortable exploring off cam in ‘real life’ and that’s what makes it more than just a passive exchange of orgasms. It’s about revealing ourselves in a shared and safe private space.

I knew all that intellectually before, I mean hell I’ve written about it enough, but tonight really showed me exactly HOW the safe space of fetish skype sex allows us to explore things we may not feel comfortable doing otherwise. Not all fetish skype shows are profound, nor do they need to be, but this one was and it felt awesome. To the totally anonymous individual who shared that wicked experience with me, huge thanks for letting me share such a potent and private fantasy.

It was awesome, as are you πŸ™‚

Naughty Skype Shows

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I love the word naughty…even the word itself sounds mischievous, and the spirit of the word naughty is always front and center in my skype shows with an Irish lad who’s appeared here frequently since I put this fetish blog together. We’ve known each other and met for extremely naughty skype shows together for about 5 years now, and at this point I can’t tell who is a bigger bad influence on whom. πŸ˜€

I gotta say though, I’m a little pissed that I can’t find the pictures I took during my last skype show with my favorite Irish pup, mainly because he looked so damn adorable. It’s possible he was a little tipsy and I sent him out to frolic in the grass all nekkid except for a smile, and he came back from his romp with a handful of lawn grass, which he proceeded to snack on before following it with a swig of Champagne. Since those pics seem to have disappeared into the ether (or more likely hidden in some folder on my comp, wow I need to organize that ish) I’ll add one of my fav pics I’ve taken during our skype shows throughout the years.

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edit: found the pic, but Imma leave the one above cuz he looks so damn cute

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Throughout those years we’ve gotten into a lot- far too much to get into here- and truth be told most of what I do write about here is extremely tame compared to what I put him up to that doesn’t get published. πŸ˜€ Everything we do is completely harmless of course, just the essence of giddy, giggly ‘holy fuck I can’t believe we just did that‘ naughtiness, and even better (or worse) we always manage to top our last romp the next time we meet on skype. He’s an utter delight and he has the second naughtiest mind I’ve ever encountered on cam or off…besides my own of course πŸ˜€

I love that ‘in real life’ we’re both appallingly respectable and upstanding citizens, and during our skype shows we explore each other’s naughty sides and always manage to egg each other to new heights of depravity. It’s like through our skype shows we reveal sides of ourselves that are far too much fun to keep hidden. He also got my birthday week off to a wicked start, so Slainte to a deliciously naughty playmate.

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