Fetish Sex With a Strap On


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I Can Finally Attest: Strap On Fetish Sex Is Awesome

My brand new purple strap-on dildo finally arrived, and over the past few days I’ve been testing it out during fetish sex shows and in a few new fetish videos (these pics are screenshots from a rather…energetic strap-on fetish video I just shot, which is why the pics are a little blurry). Holy fuck I love this thing; it’s seriously awesome and I fuck amazingly well, if I may so myself

I feel so bad-ass when I wear it, although I’ve also collapsed into gales of laughter several times over while wearing it. It is kinda hilarious to look down and see a huge purple protrudent, not to mention the fact I still can’t keep my hands off it while I’m wearing it. Probably the funniest moment was when I bent down to scritch the head of my spoiled screaming-for-pets kitten while wearing it and watching him flee in terror at the sight of it

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Beyond the fun of wearing it and making myself cum with it (in a few different ways), thanks to my new strap on toy sph fetish sex shows suddenly have risen to an entirely new level. Now not only can I mock small-cock sissies, I can compare my huge strap on toy to their minuscule appendages. I think I’m gonna try muscle domination next 🙂

So yes, I am completely enamored with my new cock I’ve named Xavier (or Mr. X to you while you’re begging to be pounded with it). If you’re in the mood for some fetish play hit me and Mr. X up on skype, I’d love to add you to my growing list of fetish sex conquests

*evil smile*

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Payment Processing For Independent Cam Girls


How Independent Cam Girls Get Paid: Payment Processing Options

In an earlier post regarding the risks of using paypal I mentioned a couple of the adult-friendly payment processing options most widely used by independent cam girls. For those cam girls who are newly independent and wishing to know a bit more about the features of various payment processing options, I’ll outline them here.


Zombaio Processing For Skype Camgirls

Zombaio offers a 10.99% processing fee (which lowers as sales volume grows) but the processor also had a fairly long processing time for payments. In general, expect to wait a month for a payment to finish processing and be sent out. Also, the minimum withdrawal level is $100, so while this isn’t an issue for more experienced independent cam girls, many new skype cam girls just starting out may find that it takes time to reach the $100 minimum withdrawal threshold. However, there are no out-of-pocket fees associated with Zombaio other than the payment processing costs that are deducted from each sale. In order to offer Zombaio you must have your own website upon which to install the script.


CCBill Processing For Independent Cam Girls

CCBill charges $750 upfront to be able to offer Visa processing, and $500 per year for account maintenance thereafter, in addition to the payment processing costs of 15% per sale. However, payments are sent out bi-weekly on a two week delay, and the payout threshold for CCBill is significantly lower than Zombaio at $20, making it an attractive option for skype cam girls just starting out who may not earn much, but wish to receive what they do earn more quickly. There is also a slightly smaller decline rate with CCBill than with Zombaio. Like Zombaio, in order to offer CCBill you must have your own website. You can’t install the script on a tumblr or free blogger site, for example.


Payoneer Payments for Skype and Yahoo Cam Sex

Payoneer is an option that tends to be most heavily used by independent cam girls just starting out. The main reason why is that you only need a payoneer debit card in order to accept ‘private load’ payments from customers, you don’t need to own your own website. With Payoneer you simply send your customer a link to your private load page, and he pays for his skype cam show or  digital content on that payment page. The main drawbacks to using Payoneer is that the service isn’t intended to be used primarily for private loads, meaning that  independent cam girls who book high volumes of business may run into problems in having those payments processed. Further, with Payoneer one can currently only send private load payments to a prepaid Payoneer debit, meaning there is no way to transfer your funds directly to a bank account. While the prcoessing fees for payoneer private loads are much lower than the costs of Zombaio or CCBill, expect to pay a variety of annual fixed and variable transaction-specific fees (load fees, ATM fees, etc) that add to considerable sums over time.


This Sucks, Why Do I Have to Pay To Use Adult-Friendly Payment Processors?

Probably the most important piece of advice I can give you, based on my three years as an independent cam girl, is to swallow the fact that you have to pay fees. Every business has operating costs and being an independent cam girl is no different. Sure, you can use alternatives such as payoneer, Gift Rocket and MoneyPak as occasional payment options (the latter two with US-based customers only), but in order to build and maintain a sustainable and profitable business that allows customers from all over the globe to send you high amounts of money as payment for skype webcam shows and content, you need an actual payment processor. There is no way around this…trust me, I’ve looked

Truth is, the less time you spend sending customers all over the internet trying out payment options not intended to be used for your actual purposes, the stronger and more successful your business will be, simply because you’ll have more time to spend making money. Further, real adult payment processing offers tools to help you avoid chargebacks that alternatives such as Gift Rocket and Payoneer do not. Remember that once a customer does a chargeback he is blacklisted from the majority of payment processors out there, so if he can’t use a credit card to book a show, wonder why.

I hope this article has been of some use to those of you are just starting out as independent cam girls. If you still have questions about any of the options I’ve listed above, check out their websites and read through their sign-up process and FAQ sections. Always remember to treat your business like a business and protect your own interests as much as possible. Don’t make it easy for the (luckily few) losers out there to steal from you by charging back their cam sex show or digital goods purchase, so use adult-friendly payment processors that help you protect yourself while allowing you to book high volumes of business with customers throughout the world. Beyond having hella fun on cam, isn’t that what we’re all here for?

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Fetish Webcam Sex

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A New Fetish Webcam Sex Experience

Ahhh, the strap-on, the go-to tool of the trade in fetish webcam sex  I never had a compelling reason to order one before…I figured they were fun but it takes alot to motivate me to go shopping so…meh. I couldn’t be bothered. That all changed a few nights ago. I was in the middle of a ridiculously awesome fetish webcam sex call when in a burst of inspiration I slid a huge toy that I own (for real, it’s so big it’s now called the ‘burglar basher’, had I any burglars to bash) down the front of my booty shorts. Holy fuck it was fun…I couldn’t stop touching the damn thing. I finally get why guys are so preoccupied with their cocks; they’re right there in front of you 24/7. I’ve never given two consecutive moments thought to my pussy cuz when I’m not using it it’s tucked away neatly- out of sight, out of mind, I suppose (I am dying laughing as I write this, btw)  but cocks are impossible to ignore when they’re right there in front of you.
Having a huge bulge in my shorts was a totally new experience…I moved differently, I kept grabbing onto it as I urged my skype playmate/victim to take (just the tip) into his mouth. I was totally in character.
Suffice it to say, I’m now a convert and I ordered a strap-on last night that should be arriving shortly. It vibrates (of course), it’s huge, it’s purple and I plan on having an immense amount of fun with it.
I think it’s pretty cool that even after all these years getting into fetish play during my skype webcam sex shows that I can still find new things that just…I dunno, click. Now I’m wondering how I went this many years without a strap-on.

I’m used to having cocks at my disposal but this one…this one is gonna be ALL mine.

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Skype Cam Girls, Stay Away From PayPal

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‘Paypal bb’ is Nothing But Grief For Skype Cam Girls

Wow. I stumbled on a site tonight that featured a blacklist of customers who had charged back the cam shows they had purchased from skype cam girls. It was a long list. My first thought was “where the fuck are they getting their traffic?!” (cuz no one’s chargeback rate should be anywhere near that high) but then I realized…the method of payment used by each and every douchebag on that list who had stolen from skype cam girls by charging back their cam shows had used…yep, you guessed it. Fucking paypal.
For real, just don’t use it. Offering paypal is basically rolling out the red carpet for every loser out there who gets a thrill out of ruining someone’s day, it’s a huge signal blaring the message “please take advantage of me”. Um, hell no. There are enough alternate adult-friendly options out there that using paypal isn’t necessary. Quite the opposite, using paypal shows that you’re not serious about your business and that you don’t give a damn about yourself OR your customers. Remember that guys can get their accounts frozen for using our services as well if they’re caught. Being independent means taking yourself and your business seriously and searching through the available adult-friendly options out there so that you have a reliable way to get paid for your yahoo and skype cam shows.


Payment Processing For Skype Cam Girls

My top recommendations are Zombaio and CCBill. There are pros and cons to both (which is why I use both) that I’ll probably cover in a later post, but you can do your own research as well. That’s what being independent means, right?

Happy camming y’all.

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Converting Y’all to Skype Cam Sex

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Skype Cam Sex is Better than the Network Cam Sites

It’s not like I consider being an independent camgirl to be a religion or something, but I do feel really strongly about converting guys to skype cam sex over the ‘big box’ cam sites. The reason why is that I really believe in this niche, I love it, and I think it serves the needs of both skype cam girls AND customers far more than do the network cam sites. With skype cam sex there’s no cam site monitoring our interactions like we’re damn kids needing to be supervised, and those sites don’t get to take a huge portion of our earnings. Granted, being an independent cam girl is much more labor-intensive than being a network cam girl, but for those prepared to invest a ton of work into their independent business it’s the best job in the world. For customers, the benefits of choosing skype cam sex is that the rates are slightly lower and each show is an exclusive and interactive one-on-one experience.


Independent Cam Customer ‘Newbies’ Make Me Smile

I work really hard to promote myself beyond those who already know about independent webcamming, and I get a huge thrill any time I encounter a customer who’s experiencing his first skype cam sex show with me. I probably meet an independent camming ‘newbie’ at least once a week, and I had the pleasure of experiencing that last night when a guy messaged me on yahoo asking about booking a show. He had never ‘gone indy’ before so after taking a couple mins to explain to him how skype cam sex works he booked and we headed over to skype to get on cam. I had a wicked time, and much to my delight I created a convert

After we both tore each other’s clothes off and came really fucking hard he told me that his skype cam sex experience with me far surpassed any he had experienced on a typical cam site. While I’d like to think I had a bit to do with that as well, he also commented that he loved the freedom (and the video stream quality!) of being on skype compared to the big box sites, and also that skype provides a completely private experience tailored exactly to what WE wanted to do together. His comments were so fucking awesome to hear, they were almost as cool to hear as the show was. Almost. Orgasms trump all 🙂


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If you’re new to skype cam sex def try it to experience the difference between independent webcamming and big box cam sites. I’d love to be your tour guide into this awesome niche and I’d love to get a chance to absolutely blow your mind

Independent camgirls for the win, you owe it to yourself to find out why.

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