How to Have an Amazing Skype Cam Show

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The Keys to an Awesome Skype Cam Show

Since we’ve already covered how to be an amazing client now we can move on how to get the most out of your skype cam shows. Operative word being skype  Granted, I have a bit of a bias but I really do find that skype offers superior video stream quality when compared with other standard alternatives such as Yahoo and MSN messenger. The one caveat to skype is that it can be a bit of a bandwidth hog, and some customers who have weak internet connections will find skype a bit tricky to work with. That’s why I always offer yahoo and msn as alternatives, because doing skype cam shows isn’t fun when the call keeps dropping due to crappy internet. If you don’t have the best internet connection, plug into your ethernet cord if possible, and close all your superfluous computer programs during your skype call.


Cam to Cam Video Calls

Beyond that, if you have cam turn it on! I understand many people are shy or wary of compromising their privacy, but you don’t need to show your face in order to do cam2cam. I find my hottest, most fun shows usually involve cam2cam at some point in the call, and I really think I’m better at what I do when I can actually SEE the person I’m playing with, feeding off their reactions…it’s an orgasmic symbiosis. Audio is great too, of course, but as I’m a pretty visual person


 Skype Cam Shows Are About Communication: Tell Your Independent Camgirl What You Really Want

Perhaps most importantly, let the independent camgirl know what it is you want  We really do try to show you an amazing time on cam, but we aren’t mind readers. There is nothing more frustrating than a guy who simply says “get dirty bb” or “turn me on”. There are a million and one things to do during a skype cam show and not all words have the same meaning to different people. One person’s ‘dirty’ may be another person’s ‘boring’, and as for ‘turning someone on’, we all know sex is highly individual. We’re all into different things. You don’t need to give us a script, but after you’ve booked a show do let us know what it is you want and your experiences with skype camgirls will be all the better for it.

One of the most amazing things about skype cam sex is that it can be a much more personalized type of cam show than you can typically find on a network cam site, so take advantage of that and tell us what drives you wild so that we can give you exactly what it is you really want

We want to blow your mind, so help us get us both there by communicating your fantasies and desires.

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If you’re ready to have some fun, you can drop by my skype camgirl booking page to read more about what I offer during my independent cam shows. Look forward to meeting you!

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How to Be a Guy Yahoo and Skype Camgirls Adore

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What Yahoo and Skype Camgirls Love: Don’t Just Not Get Banned, Be Adored!

Of course it’s our job as yahoo and skype camgirls to be pleasant and professional with all our customers, but read on if you wanna be a guy we love to play with, the kind of guy we’re never too busy to see, a person we genuinely enjoy

Maybe it’s because I’ve been at this for a while and I have a type A personality, but I can spot the time wasters a mile away. They’re almost cute to me at this point, the lonely pathetic souls who use ‘tricks’ with all the subtlety of a brick to try to monopolize the time of skype and yahoo camgirls. This post isn’t for them, they’re simply not relevant.  Rather, I’m writing this for the guys who are new to independent camming and are still learning the sublime and delicious dance that occurs between independent camgirls and our customers.


What NOT to Do When Seeking a Skype Cam Sex Show

First off, don’t ‘asl’. It’s ridiculous, the internet equivalent of front-pleated acid wash jeans. Beyond that, don’t expect to delve into a long discussion about the particulars of your desires before a cam show is booked. It’s totally cool to give the rough strokes (teehee) of what you’re looking for the find out if your skype camgirl of choice can offer that sort of show, but save the script for after the booking.

Next, don’t ask for paypal. If you want to engage with the best yahoo and skype camgirls on the net be prepared to use your credit card. NO legit independent cam girls offer paypal, if a girl is willing to accept it wonder why.

Don’t ask for free previews. Professional and talented yahoo and skype camgirls are busy,  we’re successful and we’re not into jumping through hoops just to get a guy to book a show. If you find yourself wondering if a particular independent cam girl is legit, start by checking out her website. As a webmaster I can tell you that creating a professional website takes time and effort, and no scammer is going to go to that trouble just for the sake of scamming a few guys. Also look at the payment processors she offers. If she uses zombaio or ccbill she and her site have been vetted by the processing company, and  scammers who defraud their customers get run out of the business quickly. If she uses payment processing sites check to see if they vet their camgirls, as does which verifies their listed models. In short, does it look like she gives a damn about her presence on the web? If so, the chances of her being a fraud are incredibly slim.

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How to Be An Amazing Skype Cam Sex Playmate

Beyond that, don’t be afraid to be yourself on cam. Let us know exactly what you want and tell us when we’re doing things that turn you on. We want to give you the best experience we can on cam, but we’re not mind readers, so feedback is key to ensuring we’re both having a wicked time.

Also respect our time. Don’t hit us up for free shows just cuz we had an amazing time together in the past. I love my job but it’s still a job and I expect to get paid for it. You wouldn’t walk into a restaurant and ask for a free meal just cuz the chef loves to cook, right? It’s the same with us. Respect us and we’ll respect you, and know that guys who ask for freebies usually get the ban hammer

Last, but certainly most importantly, relax and have fun. My fav playmates on cam are the guys who aren’t afraid to laugh, who share experiences with me rather than sitting passively as they watch my ‘show’. There is no ‘show’, rather skype camsex is about amazing interactions between two human beings. When those vibes meld it’s explosive

The above are just a few of the tips I have for those of you who are still learning the ropes of independent camming. Be the guy who makes us smile when you message us and your experiences with yahoo and skype camgirls will be all the better for it. Tips are always wicked too

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Independent Camgirls Have the Best Job Ever

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 We Independent Camgirls Are a Lucky Bunch

For real, we independent camgirls lead a charmed life. I do, anyway. 🙂  One of the best things about being my own boss is that I get to make my own schedule…I cam when I want, whenever I want. It also gives me an excuse to hibernate on a ridiculously cold day like today. This morning I woke up to a godforsaken minus 25 with windchill day in T.O. so I took one look out the window and decided, nope, no way in hell I’m going out in that

Right now I’m curled up on the couch working between cam shows and it struck me, holy fuck this is awesome.It’s 10 am and I’ve already had three orgasms, made a ton of cash AND I’m having fun. I get a thrill out of working on my ‘day job’ stuff while wearing skype cam clothes, researching and taking notes whilst wearing silk and lace and thigh highs. Slutty nerd, yep, that’s me. A very warm one too
So yes, on any day but particularly on a frigid winter’s day when even may cats are gazing at their coveted balcony with a ‘fuck no’ look on their faces, being an independent camgirl rocks cuz it gives me an excuse to stay all warm and toasty. Drop by my independent camgirl website if you need a lil warming up as well

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Fetish Cam Girl Stories

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Fetish Cam Girl Experiences: The Weird and the Wonderful

As a fetish cam girl I get into a lot of fetish play on cam, A LOT. Some days I barely take my clothes off, though I smoke, flex, pop balloons and mock tiny penises to my hearts content:) I was never a hard core fetishist before I got into independent webcamming but throughout the years I’ve become a huge fan of fetish cam sex play. It’s still not a huge part of my off-cam sex life, but on cam with each year fetish becomes a more prominent (and delightfully debaucherous) aspect of my skype cam shows.
Some fetishes I’d never even heard of before I became a fetish cam girl whereas others were ones I’ve dabbled in throughout the years, and others are ones I’d heard of yet never explored. Nevertheless, no matter how long I cam, I still encounter fetish requests that while fun to explore simply make a chica go wtf


Burning Post-It Guy

Probably my most memorable ‘wtf’ customer was a delightful man who had a smoking fetish. That in and of itself isn’t ‘extraordinary’, as smoking fetish is one of the most popular forms of fetish play I offer, and it’s def one of the most fun. What was unique about this guy’s fetish was that he wanted me to smoke while burning post-it notes, lighting the corners with my lighter as I drew on my cigarette and then extinguishing the flames with each exhale. Who am I to turn down something new? Once he laid it out for me I grabbed my pack of cigarettes and a glass of water (klutz insurance) and hopped on skype. It was kinda awesome and I had hella fun with him. Bonus: I never burned the house down!
I eventually got up the nerve to ask him what exactly was so erotic about burning post-it notes and his answer was succinct and to the point: “who wouldn’t be turned on by a hot woman burning post its?” Can’t argue with that logic, I suppose Anyway, dude was wicked fun, and while we lost contact over the years he will (probably) from now unto eternity hold the heralded title of having the most unique fetish I’ve ever encountered.
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Independent Skype Camgirls and Directories


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I know alot of independent skype camgirls check out my blog, so I wanted to write about something that’s been on my mind a lot lately, namely, the importance of critical thinking and actually reading the contracts we sign with independent camgirl listing directories.


Independent Skype Camgirls Must Be Business Women

One of the wicked things about being independent skype camgirls is that it’s possible to craft a successful business without a background in business, using only our intelligence and creativity. Hell, while I have my share of degrees I certainly don’t have a degree in business, everything I’ve learned I picked up through trial and error through the years. That said, as independent skype camgirls we are in business, and it’s vitally important that we treat our work as such. This is particularly the case when it comes to the skype camgirl listing directories that offer payment processing.


The Role of Skype Camgirl Listing Directories

Listing directories don’t just offer traffic, they offer payment processing, and most sites that offer processing insist that you use it. There’s nothing wrong with that, and even though I have my own processing on my own sites I do have great working relationships with several skype camgirl listing services. Independent cam sex is a small niche, and I believe ultimately we all work together in that the stronger this niche is the faster it will grow. That benefits all of us.


Independent Skype Camgirls: Read Your Contracts

That being said, I’m often surprised by the lack of scrutiny with which some independent skype camgirls approach financial partnerships with listing directories. To new independent skype camgirls in particular, recognize that each time you sign up to a listing directory site that offers payment processing you are entering into a business relationship that directly impacts upon both your money and your established web presence. As such, before even deciding whether to join any given site you must read your model contract. Of particular concern are clauses that relate to who owns your cam name and content and how payment processing operates.

On the former point, it’s common for skype camgirl listing directory model contacts to include a passage referring to non-exclusive use of your image and camgirl name, it is NOT standard for contracts to grant the site exclusive use of your name or content. Non-exclusive use clauses are necessary so that the site can advertise you and the site but you still retain the right to use your name and images elsewhere. Each are still your property to use as you see fit. In contrast, exclusive use contracts mean that you forfeit any right to use your cam name and images off the site in question, as both now belong to the cam site.

Regarding payment processing, the main question to ask is what happens to your funds if the site shuts down. Contrary to the opinions of many aspiring site owners there is not a lot of money in doing payment processing for independent skype camgirls, in that the most successful independent camgirls tend to use their own processing for their own customers. I can think of 5 sites in the past year that have either ceased operations or ceased payment processing, and as sites pop up to replace the ones that have closed it’s important to pay attention to how your funds will be handled should the sites in which you’re interested in joining struggle financially.

The safest site system is always one which uses a CCBill or Zombaio sub-account system, in that your funds will be sent to you directly from the processor rather than to the cam site and then to you, but there are several sites that use private processing and act as a middle-man between you and your funds. Here, your judgement and discretion is vital. Ask yourself how long the site has been active, does the site have a history of prompt payments, is their business plan sound? How long do I have to wait to receive my funds?


Not Trying To Sound Like The Queen of Doom Here

Like I wrote earlier, I use skype camgirl listing services, they aren’t inherently a bad thing at all, and are of particular benefit to those independent skype camgirls who are just gaining their footing in this niche. Even for established skype camgirls listing directories can play a valuable role. That said, we all have to be smart about the sites with which we choose to do business. Read your contracts, research the history and business plans of the sites and contact the sites to find answers to any questions you may have. Don’t blindly jump on board any new project that pops up. This is your money you’re dealing with, so be smart and do your research.

Happy camming and wishing ya tons of $$$$


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