Indy Camgirls, Gift Cards and Wishlist Issues

 

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In my last post regarding alternative payments for webcam showsΒ I touched on Amazon Gift Cards, which seem to be one of the most popular options used by indy camgirls who dabble in indy camming. While Gift Cards are assumed to be a risk-free payment option, I wanted to clarify how to use gift cards safely and to clear up any confusion regarding gift cards and wishlists, which are two entirely separate systems with their own respective procedures and risks.

How Indy Camgirls Use Amazon Gift Cards

In selecting any payment method, security and anonymity are vital factors. For this reason, smart indy camgirls create ‘work’ amazon accounts that don’t have their real names or addresses attached. This is because it is possible for customers to contact Amazon and inquire about the personal info of the individual to whom they sent the card. From there, the most important thing to keep in mind is that you need to redeem the gift card prior to performing a cam show or sending content. Up until the gift card is redeemed it can be cancelled, so waiting until a later date to redeem to gift puts you at risk of being ripped off. Receive the card, redeem it and then perform the cam show. πŸ™‚

Many camgirls assume the it’s impossible for shady customers to chargeback gift cards, and while chargeback rates with this payment option are very low, it is possible to have a gift card refunded if a stolen credit card was used to purchase it. Know that even after redeeming the gift card there is a very slight chance you’ll have the value of the card refunded.

Amazon Wishlists and Indy Camgirls: Issues To Keep in Mind

The main thing to keep in mind when creating an Amazon wishlist is that as an indy camgirl your privacy needs to be a top concern. For that reason, smart indy camgirls set up a P.O. Box through which to receive wishlist purchases, as the wishlist system does leave quite a few holes in security of private information. The primary issue with Amazon wishlists is that many items featured on Amazon are sent via a third-party distributor, and third-party distributors tend not to uphold Amazon account privacy settings. This means it’s quite easy for customers to track down your name and address if a wishlist purchase is sent through a third party. Unfortunately even confining one’s wishlist to items delivered straight from Amazon itself isn’t a guarantee, as I’ve heard of indy camgirls who had their account information shared with purchasers when the purchase was confined to Amazon itself. For that reason, I’d suggest no indy camgirl set up an Amazon wishlist without having a P.O. Box or other anonymous address through which to receive gifts. The risks of having your address and full name revealed to any random person on the internet is just too high to take chances.

Another issue with wishlists is that they aren’t viable options for cam show payment. Up until the time an item is shipped the purchase can be easily cancelled by the purchaser, so wishlist purchases are NOT a secure payment option for skype cam shows or custom videos. If you do want to accept wishlist items as payment, wait until the item actually arrives prior to performing the skype cam show or sending the video, as up until the day it arrives at your door there is no guarantee you will actually receive the item purchased.

Amazon Gift Cards and wishlists will never replace secure and reliable payment processing for skype cam shows, but for indy camgirls who do want to avail themselves of these systems it’s important to know how to do so safely, protecting both your personal information and your time. In sum, never attach your real name and address to an Amazon account you use for indy camming customers, and always redeem gift cards as soon as you receive them, prior to completing a skype cam show or video order. Lastly, let your customers know that wishlist purchases are not a viable form of payment and never perform a cam show based on a wishlist purchase you haven’t yet received.

While I don’t accept Amazon Gift Cards and don’t have a wishlist, these are great services for indy camgirls provided they’re used appropriately. Safety first, always πŸ™‚

Naughty Skype Shows

 

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I love the word naughty…even the word itself sounds mischievous, and the spirit of the word naughty is always front and center in my skype shows with an Irish lad who’s appeared here frequently since I put this fetish blog together. We’ve known each other and met for extremely naughty skype shows together for about 5 years now, and at this point I can’t tell who is a bigger bad influence on whom. πŸ˜€

I gotta say though, I’m a little pissed that I can’t find the pictures I took during my last skype show with my favorite Irish pup, mainly because he looked so damn adorable. It’s possible he was a little tipsy and I sent him out to frolic in the grass all nekkid except for a smile, and he came back from his romp with a handful of lawn grass, which he proceeded to snack on before following it with a swig of Champagne. Since those pics seem to have disappeared into the ether (or more likely hidden in some folder on my comp, wow I need to organize that ish) I’ll add one of my fav pics I’ve taken during our skype shows throughout the years.

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edit: found the pic, but Imma leave the one above cuz he looks so damn cute

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Throughout those years we’ve gotten into a lot- far too much to get into here- and truth be told most of what I do write about here is extremely tame compared to what I put him up to that doesn’t get published. πŸ˜€ Everything we do is completely harmless of course, just the essence of giddy, giggly ‘holy fuck I can’t believe we just did that‘ naughtiness, and even better (or worse) we always manage to top our last romp the next time we meet on skype. He’s an utter delight and he has the second naughtiest mind I’ve ever encountered on cam or off…besides my own of course πŸ˜€

I love that ‘in real life’ we’re both appallingly respectable and upstanding citizens, and during our skype shows we explore each other’s naughty sides and always manage to egg each other to new heights of depravity. It’s like through our skype shows we reveal sides of ourselves that are far too much fun to keep hidden. He also got my birthday week off to a wicked start, so Slainte to a deliciously naughty playmate.

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Alternative Payment Methods For Webcam Shows

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Before I begin, let me state that I think the processing rates for so called ‘high risk’ services such as adult-oriented webcam shows are ridiculously high. That said, many new independent camgirls don’t seem to understand the importance of having sustainable payment processing such as Zomabio, CCBill or Epoch, so I figured I write about the pros and cons of the ‘ad hoc’ alternative payment methods most commonly used by newer independent camgirls.

Gift Rocket

Gift Rocket is an American-based system through which camgirls with a Gift Rocket account can receive ‘gifts’ or payments from customers. The pros are that the cost of sending money to another party are borne by the person sending the money, not the recipient. This means that processing costs for the camgirl are zero, and the customer pays the fee of $2 plus 5% of the total gift amount in processing costs. The other main benefit of using Gift Rocket is that the customer does not need to have his own Gift Rocket account in order to send money, he simply uses his credit card to send the agreed upon amount to the camgirl’s email address that is registered with the site. The customer never sees the camgirl’s name, address or identifying info, making Gift Rocket safe and anonymous, which is important for our purposes.

The main downside of using Gift Rocket as payment for skype webcam shows is that only customers located in the US can use it, the service does not allow people from outside the US to send funds through their system. Independent camgirls outside of the US can create a Gift Rocket account, however non-Americans can only withdraw funds through paypal, which is NOT a safe or sustainable solution. If you use Paypal as an independent camgirl in any capacity related to your webcam sex work, it really is only a matter of time before your Paypal account gets frozen or suspended.

Another negative about Gift Rocket is that while the recipient of funds receives the ‘gift’ immediately, Gift Rocket only debits the customer’s credit card at a later date, meaning that there is no guarantee you will get paid for the webcam shows you perform. If the credit card is declined at that later date you are totally out of luck.

Amazon Gift Cards

Amazon gift cards are a popular payment option for independent camgirls providing skype webcam shows, as these cards are anonymous and safe, provided you always redeem the gift card prior to starting the cam show. The main drawback to these cards, and the reason I don’t accept them myself is because I can’t pay my bills with gift cards or deposit them into a savings account, I can only spend them on consumer goods. That’s great if you’re a fan of online shopping (I am not) but even for those of you who are Amazon gift cards will never be able to replace payment processing.

Payoneer

Payoneer private loads are an efficient and low cost payment option for camgirls offering yahoo and skype webcam shows, but there are significant drawbacks to the service as well. First off, the good: the fee for private loads is 3.75% and customers only need the email address attached to your payoneer account, they don’t need to create an account themselves. The downside is tha as of now only payoneer debit card holders can accept private loads, you cannot do so if you receive payoneer payments via direct deposit/global bank transfer. This means that while the fees for receiving payments are low, the expenses attached to card maintenance and withdrawal of funds from the card are expensive. Further, unless you regularly receive payoneer payments from a registered partner (such as a cam site) your card will be deactivated and your ability to accept private loads removed.

Payoneer is a great service but they aren’t a payment processor, and are quite vocal about it. As a camgirl you are not permitted to put a Payoneer payment link on your website, and your ability to accept private loads is at the sole discretion of the company. Expect that as your volume of payments rises your ability to receive private loads will be curtailed. Β See this link for further information on the payoneer private load policy.

Another drawback to using Payoneer as a payment option for webcam shows is that customer payments are not transferred immediately, there is often a two day hold on the customer making a payment and the funds being removed from his credit card and appearing in your account. This means that if a payment is declined you only find out after the fact, unless you always require Payoneer payment two days in advance. Not a great solution for spur-of-the-moment webcam show requests.

Paxum

Paxum is a similar service to payoneer although unlike the former they encourage private use. Paxum is anonymous and the low costs of payment (which are paid by the customer) are 4.95% of the total amount + $0.50 + 25 cents. Still, fees to withdraw ones funds from a Paxum account are quite steep, atΒ 5$ for check and $8.95 for ACH (EFT). There is also a $40 surcharge if a payment from a customer is charged back, which means that in the event of a chargeback you lose the cost of the webcam show plus an additional $40. Another drawback is that customers must create a Paxum account in order to send payments to your Paxum account, and creating your own verified Paxum account in order to withdraw funds can be quite a bureaucratic ordeal.

Money Pak/Blue Bird

Money Pak and Blue Bird are two great safe, secure and anonymous alternative payment options, but since they can only be used by Americans within America I don’t consider them to be a general viable option for webcam show payments. I’m not American, but even if I was easily half my customers are located in nations outside the US, simply put these services would be useless for a great percentage of my webcam show clients. Feel free to do your own research if you own circumstances are more US-centric, however.

Β Why Alternative Payments Do Not Replace Adult Payment Processing for Webcam Shows

All of the options listed above have their uses and pros and cons, but they don’t replace adult payment processing for skype webcam shows because none offer the protection offered by processors such as CCBill, Zombaio and Epoch. Adult payment processors blacklist customers who have charged back, and cards that are declined for innocent bank errors appear immediately, before you have performed the agreed upon webcam show service. Anyone who uses adult payment processing knows how frequently innocent errors that cause credit card declines occur, and few of the services listed above offer any method to protect independent camgirls against that. Further, many of the options listed above offer low cost processing but carry high fees to withdraw funds, in effect raising the cost of accessing your money far above the initial processing fee. Β I’m not saying don’t use these services, I’ve used many of them myself and been pleased, but I could never run a thriving business without adult payment processing that notifies me immediately of card declines. If you want to be a full time independent camgirl you need to either get your own merchant account or use a site for payment processing that offers a sub-account system of the same. That’s the only way to protect yourself as you grow your business.

 

Naked House Pet Cam Shows

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An Incorrigible Slut Before, During and After Our Cam Shows

I love controlling men, watching them tremble on their knees completely at the mercy of my every whim. It’s fun, it’s so easy to accomplish πŸ™‚ and my obedient playmates who meet me on skype for Domination cam shows always agree. A playmate of mine and I have gotten into a wicked game of naked house pet cam shows that totally merit a notable mention here on my fetish camgirl blog so today I present to you, the naked house pet.

A. is from Europe and works long hours. Rarely is he at home with ample time to serve me properly at his disposal but recently we’ve had a wicked stretch of good luck and he’s had entire weekends to spend serving me and meeting my every whim and desire. What is my desire you ask? Y’all who know me should be able to answer that easily, I want you to be tortured by desire, desperate to cum and completely powerless as to the decision of whether you’ll be granted the pleasure of doing so πŸ™‚ I want to own you, mind and body.

My naked house pet spends days at a time completely bare. He sleeps nude, eats nude, receives packages at the door nude, hiding his eager and slutty self behind the door with scrambled excuses about ‘just getting out of the shower’. Haha. During these weekends we get on skype for intermittent cam shows in which he watches me cum and strokes MY cock for me, but he isn’t permitted to cum himself. What fun would that be for me? Edging to the point of delirium he begs and begs but still he waits, when I’m feeling particularly cruel I have him watch Femdom porn while stroking MY cock but again, no orgasms allowed for my naked house pet. πŸ˜€

My naked house pet is as much under my control off cam as he is during our cam shows. Ordered to remain nude he’s unable to focus upon anything other than MY cock and he’s constantly reminded that he has no control over it. He’s constantly on the verge of cumming with his mind filled with visions of me revealing myself as I sloooowly tease of my clothes and cum while he watches, but he’s powerless. Everything is up to me. As it should be πŸ˜€

My naked house pet is an incorrigible slut who slips under my spell effortlessly. Beyond that he’s a fucking delight and I love that between our play we can laugh and talk like two real people, outside of our roles. Not all guys get that, that for me role play cam shows are at their best fluid and always at the core is the symbiosis between two real individuals. One can be a horny slut pathetically begging to cum AND a wicked human being to talk and laugh with. For that alone my pathetic naked house pet deserves a spot here. He’ll probably still be denied pleasure with even more cruelty next time we meet up though. I’m far too entertained by his torment to show any mercy. πŸ™‚

Fetish Skype Sex Eye Candy, All But That Tiny Cock

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My favorite thing about fetish skype sex is how playful it can be. The rules of the real world get thrown out the proverbial window and the realm of fantasy descends, meaning that we (or rather, I) are in total control of creating our own realities. Enter exhibit A, a divinely built playmate who knows his way around a gym and looks absolutely amazing when he strips for me…down to his tiny lacy panties so I can mock his little cock. I’ve known M. for a while now, and in the years we’ve played together he’s dressed up in more pairs of panties (and occasionally some wicked black thigh high stockings) than I can count, each pair tinier than the next. His body is delicious, but his tiny cock disappears underneath his lingerie. He can actually fit his phone inside his panties along with his cock and still have room to spare….I don’t think men are supposed to be able to do that. πŸ™‚

During our fetish skype sex shows I love to taunt M. with how I’m going to drag him out to parties and have him walk around in panties so my friends and I can howl with laughter, and maybe if he’s really lucky he’ll get to watch me fuck a real man, the type who’s perfect body doesn’t end below the waist. πŸ™‚ I’ve even (at his request) shown his pictures to a couple of my friends for them to get a giggle out of…his tanned cut torso with a perfect line of cum down the center and his tiny cock peeking above the top of his g-string.

M. is hella fun AND hot and he always makes me cum hard, even harder than I laugh when teasing him. That’s what I mean about skype sex having no rules…if I wanna strip down and get off while I’m mocking my sexy little subject I will, and in the case of M., do. Often. πŸ™‚

I’m not sure M. is gonna give the OK to posting his pics here. I have a million of ’em but he wants to see this post before he gives the final verdict so for now y’all will have to sate yourselves with my pics instead. I’m pretty convincing though, so I should have some wicked body and small cock pictures up here soon. πŸ™‚

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So yeah, the best fetish skype sex is whatever the hell the people involved want it to be. If I wanna have a laugh about life with a playmate, then mock his incredibly tiny cock and then ride his face til I cum Imma do exactly that. πŸ™‚