Well, let’s call it a skype cam swimsuit contest without the competitive component, because truth is both me and my delectable skype cam boy toy look absolutely ravishing in our beach attire. 🙂
Recently my skype cam boy toy and I got to celebrate two pretty wicked things recently (his birthday and my escape from the cold) and what better way to celebrate than lounging in my bed fort on skype, him tipping back some very hoity toity white wine in a box and me pounding back energy drinks (it’s always hours earlier over here so I can’t often justify getting tanked on cam at noon, alas). The only thing that could make it better? Swimsuits of course. 😀
I was in my colorful aqua bikini, as my new thoroughly slutty wicked weasel bathing suit (see below) hadn’t arrived yet, and my skype cam boy toy was in a delicious two piece ensemble that perfectly displayed his delectable derriere. They unfortunately don’t make swimsuits like they used to though. Such horrific craftsmanship, both of us kept slipping out of our swimsuits which you could imagine was quite embarrassing for modest individuals such as ourselves.
I can hardly wait until I’m out of arctic Canada for good, and as soon as I get down to my new home in the perpetual sun my skype cam boy toy and I will have our first ever poolside hook-up, which after 5 long years is sorely overdue. I hope I don’t accidentally get my new swimsuit wet though, according to a certain Irish pup who purchased it for me it becomes translucent when exposed to water. 🙂 I’m not I’m supposed to get presents on other people’s birthdays but that’s just the sort of person my boy toy is. He also delighted me with a pic I dared him to take in an Irish pub.
See? We’re practically twins, no competition here. Rather it’s just an average afternoon in March, lounging in our slutty slutty swimwear. 🙂
I don’t have a lot of set ‘rules’ during my fetish skype sessions, but one rule that certain playmates must follow is that one of us must be wearing silky, lacy panties, at all times. Since I enjoy getting naked that means he needs to pick up the slack and slip into his own pairs, that I’ve selected for him of course. 🙂
D and I frequently go on shopping trips for new toys to play with and new panties and collars for him to wear for me during our fetish skype sessions. He’s only allowed to wear the panties off cam if he begs and I’m in a particularly generous mood. Truth is, I quite enjoy having him dress up for me, in homage to me, even when I’m off making other men cum, but I find his begging equally exquisite so I always make him work for the pleasure.
Above are some of the latest panties we’ve selected for D. As you can see he’s partial to black and purple (the fact that those are my favorite colors are purely coincidental), and he always has to wear his studded cock collar underneath his panties, being undressed is not an option for this dedicated individual.
D loves wearing panties for me, and he loves the feel of silky fabric against his skin. He also happens to wear em extremely well, which is always a plus as I demand that my playmates during fetish skype sessions be adorable as well as dedicated to their roles. Every now and then he tosses out all the previous toys and panties we’ve selected for him, which actually works out well because it means it’s just a matter of time before we’re back online, picking out new ones. Then he gets to experience the excitement of waiting for new packages to arrive, counting the moments until I allow him to slip into a new pair for the very first time.
While I enjoy making him beg, truth is he rocks each pair we select for him. To check out D in all his incarnations (and attire) during our fetish skype sessions click here. 🙂
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Xavier, An Awesome Accompaniment to Fetish Webcam Sex
What is it about strap on fetish webcam sex? Before I got my strap on Xavier I honestly didn’t know what I was missing, but as soon as I received him as a gift from an awesome individual known here as D it was like he was a natural extension of me, not only of my body but of my mind as well.
Judging from the reaction I get during my fetish webcam sex shows it’s obvious y’all feel the same. Considering how popular my magnificent strap on cock Xavier is, sometimes I think he should have his own website. 😀 I’m writing about Xavier here on my fetish webcam sex blog because last night I received a skype message that actually made me laugh out loud; a playmate messaged with a ‘hello Lady J, is Xavier available tonight? I must see him’. What the fuck am I, the side attraction? 😀 Truth is though, I love weilding Xavier during my fetish webcam sex shows, he’s by far the most fun toy I’ve ever owned and when I wear him I can’t keep my hands off him. The moment I slip him on an incredibly Dominant and powerful side of my personality emerges, as in ‘rawr Lady J is in tha house, bow down and pay homage’, and you fall to your knees, lips parted to take a good face fucking. 🙂
Ultimately though my favorite aspect of my strap on Xavier is his versatility. His magnificent size makes him perfect for small penis humiliation, and he’s an excellent tutor in the fine art of cock sucker training. He adds a certain gravitas to my muscle domination webcam sex sessions, and he’s in turns sensual and menacing during my Femdom cam sessions, depending upon my whims and what my victim, erm, playmate deserves at the moment. 😀
In short, he’s awesome and he takes my fetish webcam sex shows to an entirely different level. That y’all adore him as much as I do simply means your taste in strap on cocks is as fine as your taste in nerdy independent camgirls. I have no problem sharing the spotlight with a strap on cock this divine.
Fetish Cam Sex Should be Personalized
As a fetish camgirl there’s nothing that makes me cringe more than a guy who contacts me asking for “something kinky”. I mean, seriously. Could this possibly be any more vague? 🙂 The reason why I cringe is that while the whole point of fetish cam sex is to explore desire, an implicit corollary to that is the point that fetish cam sex should be individualized. A fetish cam sex show I do with one guy won’t necessarily translate to an intense experience if explored with a completely different person. Every individual is unique and therefore so should be the shows themselves, which is why I’d argue that paint-by-numbers fetish cam sex is an oxymoronic term. I can’t just create a scenario all by myself.
Still, every one has to start somewhere, right? Not all that long ago some of the forms of fetish cam sex I enjoy the most were brand new to me, so I don’t expect that everyone who wants to explore kink is an expert on the subject. In fact some of my favorite fetish cam sex shows are ones where I introduce guys to a new form of roleplay or fetish, as it’s awesome seeing the excitement that can emerge when exploring the unknown. I have a pretty creative mind and I love to suggest new roleplay and fetish scenarios, that’s a huge part of what makes cam sex fun for me. Still, I’m not a mind reader. 🙂 What’s kinky to one individual may be boring as hell to another, and while fetish concepts transfer well to different fetish cam sex shows, fetish skype sex is always hotter when it’s personalized to every session.
How to Ask For Satisfying Fetish Cam Sex
Any fetish camgirl worth her salt will naturally bring a ton of creativity to her fetish cam sex shows, but in order to ensure you actually receive an experience that blows your mind you need to fantasize a bit about what you want. Ironically this is even more important if you don’t know what you want. 🙂 Close your eyes and let you mind wander…what is she wearing in your mind? Do you want to feel seized and molded to suit her whims or do you want to control the action? In your fantasy does the power shift mid way? What is your favorite part of the female body? Is she bitchy and cruel, innocent and inexperienced, seductive and sensual? Even the most seemingly insignificant details can provide a wicked jumping off point, so let your fetish camgirl know what is in your head and she can go from there…crafting a fetish cam sex experience personalized to what makes you tick.
Fetish Cam Sex is Uninhibited and Exploratory
While I love it when guys share their fully-formed fantasies and desires with me, introducing me to something new, some of my favorite fetish cam sex experiences have been ones that are a meander down what I like to call the garden path. At the beginning neither of us know exactly how to experience will turn out but we jump into it anyways, feeding off each other’s energy and excitement to create something awesome. You don’t need to be an expert in kink to experience wicked fetish cam sex, but you are an integral part of the experience. To get what will really drive you wild you have to be willing to share your fantasies and be a part of the creation, not a passive observer of someone else’s idea of what’s hot.
To have wicked fetish cam sex be willing to talk about what you want after you book a skype show. Share your thoughts and fantasies and really participate in the process of creating the experience. The fetish cam sex experience will be far more intense if you do, because you’ll actually be a part of it.
When Intimacy and Anonymity Meet Fetish Skype Sex Gets Explosive
Normally when I write here about fetish skype shows I tend to focus on the shows themselves, but today I want to do something a little different. I had a fetish skype show experience tonight that totally blew me away and I feel compelled to write about it, not just because the experience itself was awesome but because it revealed something unique and important about fetish skype sex, namely the ability it affords us to explore fantasies and desires that we aren’t quite ready to unleash upon the world.
As I’ve written before, one of my fav things about fetish skype shows is that they are once totally anonymous and totally intimate. As a result it’s the perfect venue for exploring desires without having to worry about how those desires may be perceived by close family and friends. Tonight was a perfect example of that, when a regular playmate worked up the courage to add an extra element to our roleplay that we hadn’t explored up until that point. Even before we got on cam he admitted that the new element was difficult for him to even articulate, but I’m so glad we did because holy fuck the experience was intense. Simply put: I’d never seen him quite that turned on during our prior sessions.
I felt pretty honored that he chose me as his partner in acting out his private fantasy, and even more so knowing that in doing so he had revealed something intensely personal and private that wasn’t all that easy for him to articulate initially. It didn’t occur to me at the time but thinking about the fetish skype show session later it hit me: THIS is what skype sex is all about. No matter where on the globe we reside we all live in societies that place rigid (and frankly quite boring) rules on what’s considered ‘normal’, and truth is sex is about exploring; exploring what turns us on, what fascinates us, what really makes us tick. The anonymity of cam sex enables us all to explore those fantasies and desires in ways we may not feel comfortable exploring off cam in ‘real life’ and that’s what makes it more than just a passive exchange of orgasms. It’s about revealing ourselves in a shared and safe private space.
I knew all that intellectually before, I mean hell I’ve written about it enough, but tonight really showed me exactly HOW the safe space of fetish skype sex allows us to explore things we may not feel comfortable doing otherwise. Not all fetish skype shows are profound, nor do they need to be, but this one was and it felt awesome. To the totally anonymous individual who shared that wicked experience with me, huge thanks for letting me share such a potent and private fantasy.
It was awesome, as are you 🙂