Cam Girl Emails, the Banal and the Sublime

 

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Cam Girl Off Site Contact

One of the things I love most about being a skype cam girl is that I don’t have to deal with any ‘no off-site contact’ rules. I’m not a fucking child and neither are my friends and cam sex playmates, so to me the idea of working within the confines of a system (or site) that determines how and where I can communicate with my guys is kinda ridiculous. That said, there are pros and cons to off-site contact. The HUGE pros are that I can hook up with my skype cam sex playmates whenever I choose, we can talk, email, exchange whatever info we like between each other and we don’t have to feel as if our interactions are being monitored by some over-site committee that is monitoring our communications for ‘inappropriate content’.

While there are many upside to the freedom that comes with being a skype cam girl, the downside is limited to one item: unsolicited cock pics. Seriously y’all, I cannot fathom why I receive dozens of cock pics per week from guys I’ve never encountered on cam, asking to appear here on blog or just wanting me to ‘rate and admire’ or some shit. It’s hilarious. Like I would ever be attracted to the cock of a guy with whom I’ve never interacted, let alone find it skype cam girl blog-worthy  Note to all who require sage advice: poorly-lit webcam snapshots of disembodied sex organs from strangers are not hot. Nor are emails that are headed “what do u tink bb” (sic). Answer: I think you need to seek a hobby, gainful employment, a dictionary and/or a life.

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How To Send a Skype Cam Girl A Killer Email

I was thinking about this topic tonight because within hours of receiving the unsolicited email I mention above I received an email from a skype cam sex playmate who gets it…instead of sending unsolicited rando ish he sent me pics of his two gorgeous cats. I am a sucker for pussy after all  Seriously though, how cool was it to get pics from a guy (who I’m still getting to know) that speak to who he is off-cam, that let me into a portion of his life that I’m just getting to know? Yes he has a beautiful cock I enjoy seeing on cam along with the rest of his body, but that’s not the point The point is that he, knowing my slight obsession with all things cat, took the time to send me something I hadn’t already seen, revealing something about himself that extends beyond our exchanges of orgasms and appreciation for my legs. I’d post the pics he sent me here (they are awesome) but I haven’t asked if he’s be cool with that, so instead I’ll supplement with some pics from my own collection.

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Enjoy, and pay heed. Be real, not some guy inhabiting the mind of a sex-starved moron (and thanks to the vast majority of y’all who make me happy that I’m a skype cam girl who can talk to you wherever/however I choose) <3

Webcam Girls Require Devotion

 

Webcam Girls Must Be Entertained

webcam sex fan wearing underwear on his headYou know a naughty skype cam sex playmate is devoted to independent webcam girls (particularly moi, independent camgirl extraordinaire Quinn69) when he’s willing to venture into new territory to please me. Don’t get me wrong…he has a naughty streak on his own but I seem to bring out the best in him, even if it means shopping for a vibrating purple (of course) butt plug for him to wear to a stroll through town. No one but I will know why he has such a twinkle in his eye, and I rather like it that way…his new toy we purchased together hidden away inside an eminently spankable bum . I may just make him ring his Mum afterwards to have a chat about the weather…while I tease him with a soaking wet bathing suit, of course. T’would only be proper (and thoroughly entertaining) that way

In case you’re wondering about the above picture to the left, this fetish webcam girl conquest of mine must shop for toys with underwear on his head because he’s otherwise naked and may catch a cold if his head is insufficiently protected

Truth is, one of the things most skype webcam girls enjoy the most is being a bad influence and I think it would be tragic if my favorite skype cam sex fetish playmates didn’t accompany me down the garden path. Sure, some may venture down it all on their own but I’d like think I push things a little further, even if that means my skype webcam girl toys being tied to a tree and covered with peanut butter

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So yes, this skype webcam girl will push you as far as you’re willing to go, purely for my joy in doing so. I love to dominate, I love to play, and I love skype playmates who let go of control and let me have my way with them. Ceding control is always a choice, which makes the act of you doing so that much more sweet  The sensations I grant you are your reward.

Payment Processing for Skype Cam Girls: Update

 

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New Fees for Skype Cam Girls

Not all change is for the better, and the latest development in the arena of payment processing for skype cam girls sucks. Those of you who have independent skype cam girl merchant accounts already know this, but for those skype cam girls out there who are weighing the pros and cons of different payment processing options before making the leap, know that Mastercard has now decided to charge an annual $500 fee per merchant account for the ability to offer this particular credit card option. Combined with the annual $500 Visa fee, upfront charge of $750 and per-sale payment processing costs that typically range from 10-15%, we’re talking a significant chunk of change per year, solely for the privilege of offering Visa and Mastercard payment options to our cam sex customers.

 

Options for Skype Cam Girls That Do Not Involve Annual Fees

Luckily there are ways around these new skype cam girl merchant account fees. Zombaio is one payment processing option that involves no upfront or annual fees for credit card processing and has low processing rates by adult industry standards. It’s a service I recommend highly. The drawbacks, as I’ve explored before here, are that the installation of Zombaio can be quite tricky if their automatic installation system won’t work on your site, and payouts must process for a full month before being sent out. It’s not an ideal solution for those skype cam girls who rely on quick payouts.

One positive thing I’ve noticed about Zombaio is that over the past couple of years it’s become far more well-known amongst customers and potential customers. This is important because many guys are a bit wary of using a total unknown (to them) payment method, and it wasn’t too long ago that many guys only felt safe using a well-known system like CCBill. I’ve definitely noticed that over the past couple of years more and more new customers feel comfortable using Zombaio, perhaps because many mainstream cam sites use non-CCBill options so they are growing accustomed to trying other systems, but either way this is good news for independent camgirls who want to process their own payments without paying a ton of money to Visa and Mastercard for the privilege of doing so. Zombaio is my first choice processor and I’ve been happily using it to book high volumes of business for almost a year now.

You can also join an independent skype cam girl listing site and use that site’s payment processor, but the drawback here is that sites that do not offer processing through CCBill are set up in such a way that you have no control over the money you earn until the site owner sends it to you. The main risk involved in using private processing offered by sites that list skype cam girls is that you rely upon the goodwill and professionalism of the site owner to send you the payments you’ve earned. Luckily the vast majority of skype cam girl listing site owners are honest and professional, but still I’d be wary of building too much of your business around something you don’t fully control.

While the processing rates for skype cam girl listing sites that offer CCBill tend to be high (at 25%, leaving you with 75%), the main benefit is that payments are sent directly through CCBill, these sites do not act as a middle-man between you and your money.

 

How Should Skype Cam Girls Proceed Regarding These New Credit Card Fees?

There is no ‘one size fits all’ answer, of course, but if you’re a brand new to being a skype cam girl I would not recommend that you set up your own merchant account and pay the fees for credit card processing right away, as many skype cam girls start off making fairly little as they build their customer bases and businesses. What I would suggest is using a range of options to minimize risk, using a combination of Zombaio and skype cam girl listing site processing to ensure that, should something go wrong, your entire business model does not come crashing down or your funds lost.

In all things, we skype cam girls must think strategically. Being an entrepreneur means using creativity and logic in equal doses when creating and executing a business plan, and finding secure, reliable and sustainable payment processing options is a huge part of that. You can’t build a successful and sustainable business on amazon giftcards, moneypak and payoneer private load paments alone so finding good credit card processing options are a must.

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Independent Cam Girls and Creativity

 

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Ingenuity is Integral to the Success of Independent Cam Girls

Of all the things I respect and appreciate the most about my peers who are successful independent cam girls is the creativity and ingenuity that they (we) bring to our careers. As this is a fairly small field successful independent skype cam girls understand that it doesn’t do anyone any good to have us all be the same, with the same websites with same site content all over the web…first off it bores our cam sex playmates, it’s uninspired, and those cam girls who don’t really take a risk, think creatively and put themselves into their work are missing out on the best thing about our jobs, namely that as independent skype cam girls we can turn our online presence, our personas, our work into anything we want them to be.

Think about it, your website, what you write, how you present yourself essentially is who you are online. Who we are as individuals is the strongest asset all independent cam girls bring to our respective work, and from what I’ve seen the girls who don’t get that flounder. Being an independent skype camgirl has an emphasis on the ‘individual’ part…camgirls who don’t get that aren’t cut out for this work. Being an entreupreneur is essentially about doing one’s own thing. I love seeing my peers succeed, particularly new independent cam girls who have decided to take a risk and venture out on their own but at the same time I find it sad when intelligent, creative women doubt their own abilities and don’t extend their careers beyond what’s already been done, who simply mimic others because they don’t have the confidence to do their own thing. I find it sad because these independent cam girls are missing out on the amazing freedom that comes with being able to completely express ourselves, and I find it sad because it means that they aren’t contributing to this niche in a manner that will excite our shared customer base in new and meaningful ways.

I really can’t stress this enough, to succeed independent skype cam girls need to bring our unique individuality to our work. Do something crazy, do something completely organic to who you are, that separates you from every other cam girl. Those who don’t understand this are missing out on a shit ton of creative fun, and from what I’ve seen, end up returning to the cam sites.

To Newly Independent Cam Girls

A small favor to ask. I think it’s amazing whenever I see camgirls getting into this niche, and I appreciate that the process of learning about becoming an independent webcam girl can be a slightly overwhelming process initially. That said, if you have specific questions I can answer for you I’m happy to do so, just please email me at jesse@quinn69.com. Please do not contact me on yahoo messenger. When I’m online I’m either working at my computer or I’m on skype doing a cam show, I don’t have the luxury of dropping everything to have a conversation whenever I wish.
Also bear in mind that while I’m happy to answer specific questions if I can, a salient feature of being independent is doing your own research and using your own creativity. I won’t write you a blueprint on how to become an independent webcam girl because there is no ‘one’ way to do things. I’ve received a lot of questions and messages lately from webcam girls new to skype cam sex so I just wanted to explain where I’m coming from.
Thanks for your consideration and happy camming.

Muscle Fetish Camgirl

 

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My Bad-Ass Muscle Fetish Camgirl Side

As you should know by now I love fetish…love it, and I consider myself as much a fetish camgirl as anything else. What I love the most is that fetish allows me to explore my creativity (and yours too) and delve into things that are unique and organic. I enjoy a wide range of forms of fetish skype play, but one of my favs is definitely muscle fetish. I kinda find it hilarious to be honest…I mean, I’m really not that big, it’s just that the cuts in muscles are pronounced when I flex em, but I also feel incredibly bad-ass when I’m in muscle fetish camgirl mode, and I love the feeling of demonstrating my power knowing that you’re both terrified AND incredibly turned on watching me. As time goes on I’m finding that muscle fetish is becoming an increasingly popular aspect of my fetish camgirl skype shows, and by now I think I’ve tortured men on most of the continents, and most of the states and provinces in North Amer. Before I became a fetish camgirl I had no idea how much fun I’d have punching, kicking, flexing and dominating weak and puny men, or how many men worldwide were into it either

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Popular Forms of Muscle Fetish Play

As a muscle fetish camgirl the majority of my muscle cam sex shows involve domination and displays of power, but I also really love exploring the sensuality of the fetish as well. The two forms aren’t nearly as dissimilar as they might initially appear. In the former I terrify my captive with overt displays of my power and capacity for destruction  whereas in the latter form involves a softer, erotic display of my body. That same capacity to physically dominate and control still exists in sensual domination though, so there is a tie in between the two most popular (and fun) forms of muscle fetish I practise.

What also surprised me initially was how many of you muscle fetish enthusiasts love to combine different forms of fetish, particularly smoking and muscle fetish. It’s kinda funny to me because s much as I love it I know smoking is an inherently unhealthy activity, but the two do fit together well, and I love that y’all encourage me to poison my lungs with sweet sweet nicotine while I flex, punish and control you

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So yeah, as you can see in the pics above I’m hardly a muscle-bound Amazon, but I work out hard and I love that through being a muscle fetish camgirl I get to integrate different aspects of myself (my urge to dominate, the products of my hard core workouts, my love of cigarettes) into my skype cam sex play.

If we haven’t encountered each other yet and you’re interested in learning more about the types of fetish skype cam sex that I have the most fun with, check me out here

I promise I won’t hurt you…yet anyways