How To Give Wicked Webcam Sex

 

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What is Amazing Webcam Sex?

In the past I’ve written some tips for the guys on how to have amazing webcam sex, but based on a question I stumbled upon recently I figured I should write one for camgirls as well, particularly those who are new entrants to the field of skype cam sex.  Much of what I have to say applies equally to both camgirls the webcam sex fans who visit us, but I think as skype camgirls it’s far more important that we understand what we’re doing, as we’re the ones essentially running the show, so to speak

So what is webcam sex all about? Simply put, amazing webcam sex is a wholly unique and symbiotic interaction between people, between individuals. As skype camgirls essentially our webcam sex shows are about us, not about any specific act we can demonstrate. I see alot of new camgirls enter the field of webcam sex assuming that they need to do outrageous and extreme sex acts in order to be successful, but really nothing could be further from the truth. Don’t get me wrong, some camgirls do amazingly well providing ‘extreme’ webcam sex experiences, but they choose to do those extreme types of webcam sex shows because they truly enjoy doing them. NO camgirl can be successful long term doing something she truly dislikes, as taking that path is a surefire recipe for burnout and dissatisfaction. What makes being a camgirl so amazing is that there is no one way to do things, and all of the successful camgirls I know (myself included) bring our unique personalities and creative ideas into our webcam sex play. Trying to copy another camgirl’s style will never work because each of us are individual: the key to being an amazing camgirl and giving kick ass webcam sex shows is to do things that no other camgirls offer, or at least not exactly how they offer them.

The Difference Between Live Webcam Sex and Video Recordings

I really believe the defining feature of great webcam sex lies in the difference between live cam shows and video recordings. We all know that pirated webcam sex recordings exist on the internet and any guy that wants to find em can easily do so (I hope those that do so get horrible computer viruses!!). Why do guys visit us then? Why do they pay for webcam sex shows when they can find free porn all over the net? The reason they do is because we offer something no video could ever provide: unique, individualized webcam sex experiences that are interactive. In my time as a camgirl I’ve seen a ton of girls come and go, and the ones that last understand this. Those that simply go through the motions, offering the same rote ‘performance’ to each playmate tend to be low end earners who don’t have alot of fun on cam, and it shows. To give great webcam sex experiences you need to interact with your playmates, explore different fantasies and ideas, laugh together when you stumble into something that ends up being ridiculous. Be energetic, creative, do your own thing and you’ll make amazing money giving kick-ass webcam sex shows and have hella fun doing so. Never be afraid to look silly or explore something you’ve always wanted to try, pay attention to what your playmates want and lead them into things that will truly blow their minds. That’s wicked webcam sex, and it’s why camgirls have the best job in the world 🙂

Skype Camgirls Need Cam Sex Toys

 

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Camgirls and Cam Sex Toys

So let’s operate under the assumption (as I do), that camgirls require cam sex toys. The question then becomes: what constitutes a cam sex toy? For some of y’all your first thought will be of dildos and vibrators, but for me camgirls also require cam sex toys of the human variety…those lucky individuals that we choose to bend and shape to serve our needs. They always prove to be the most delightful and enduring toys-no batteries required. In short, the best cam sex toys occur in human form, although it’s also always fun to include inanimate sex toys into the mix as well.

Who are my favorite skype cam sex toys? I have many (and I have excellent taste in all things, including men) but my favorite cam sex toys are those who willingly submit completely to my whims, my moods and above all, my desires. I’m not into forcing people to do things. Rather, I want to captivate your mind and body so that you cannot resist that which you never realized (until now) that you ever wanted. I want you to crave the desire that I uncover.

Exhibit ‘A’ below is the newest cam sex toy collection of one of MY favorite cam sex toys. He consulted with me for every purchase he has ever made during our countless cam sex toy shopping sprees. Many of the cam sex toys we purchased as novelties proved lacking so we tossed them but these are the sex toys that have endured, elegantly displayed by a ready, willing and able skype cam sex toy of my own. Oh the symbolism, ’tis overwhelming

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Now this artful array of sex toy paraphernalia is hype but ultimately the inanimate toy without the real cam sex toy mean nothing. In short, yeah, props can be fun, but people are what make skype cam sex extraordinary. Bow down and pay homage.

Independent Camgirls and Taxes

 

Independent Camgirls Gotta Pay Taxes

Since I just finished wrapping up the oh-so-fun task of doing my taxes last week I figured this would be a good time to write about the responsibilities that we independent camgirls regarding taxes. As tax laws differ from nation to nation obviously you’ll need to research the laws in your own jurisdiction, but please know that independent camgirls gotta pay tax. I observe some independent camgirls who seem to assume that if they aren’t being paid by a company that they don’t need to declare that income, but this mentality couldn’t be further from the truth. Even setting aside the ethical issue of each of us paying our fair share for participation in a civilized society, not declaring income can set up independent camgirls for a whole host of legal and financial difficulties down the road.

 

As Independent Camgirls Our Incomes Are Traceable

If you work online and accept electronic payments from customers for skype cam sex shows and content, the payments you receive are impossible to hide. There is always an electronic record of the transfer of money from our customers to our financial accounts (eg: bank accounts, payoneer accounts, etc) so if you opt not to declare your income and end up getting audited it would be quite easy for your government to discover your undeclared earnings. Under-reporting taxes can result in huge penalties and interest charges that greatly exceed any tax you would have owed had you just declared your income in the first place.

 

Benefits of Declaring Income

Beyond the ‘downside’ of having to pay tax on our earnings as independent camgirls, there are a whole host of benefits that come along with declaring income honestly. One such benefit emerges when it comes to large ‘milestone’ purchases. Let’s say you’re saving for a down payment on your first home or want to buy a new car or rent your first apartment, in all these cases your financial records will be factored into your ability to pay for what you seek to purchase or rent. If you declare your income, you can also deposit large sums into savings accounts without worry that the government will question where all this money is coming from. If you want to enjoy your life and secure your future you need to keep ‘clean’ financially, as making a large purchase will raise red flags is your reported income is significantly less than your actual purchasing power or savings account balances.

For independent camgirls who are in school, have children or are in a low income bracket, declaring income can actually result in a net financial benefit, in that by filing taxes you will be eligible for tax breaks and tax credits that you won’t receive if you don’t file.

 

How to Set Money Aside for Expected Taxes

In general, it’s advised that all camgirls (not just independent camgirls) set aside 30-35% of our earnings each week/month to a specific ‘tax fund’ so that when tax time rolls around you won’t struggle to come up with the tax monies owing. Bear in mid however that if you are earning well (eg: 2k per week or more consistently) you’d be wise to set aside more than that.  One way to estimate how much money you will end up owing come tax time is to look over your earnings records and extrapolate that over the year. Then consult tax bracket calculators online to get a rough sense of what your tax responsibility will end up being. It’s always better to over-save than to be left without necessary funds, so err on the side of saving too much than too little for taxes. If your taxes end up being less than you thought you end up with a nice little boost to your personal savings accounts, so it’s a win/win to save more than you expect you’ll need.

Many camgirls who do not set aside money for taxes end up with a great deal of stress come tax time, as they find themselves without the funds necessary to pay what they owe. The biggest mistake I see many camgirls make is in assuming that the whole of each paycheck is disposable income, for each of us to use however we wish. Nothing could be further from the truth, in that unlike those who receive paychecks as employees (and thus have state, federal tax etc deducted automatically from each paycheck), as independent camgirls we are NOT employees of any company and receive our payments with no such deductions. It’s our responsibility to set part of each payment we receive in anticipation of the taxes we will be required to pay at a later date.

If this is your first year as a camgirl, you don’t need to make quarterly tax payments, although if you are an American camgirl do anticipate that you will be required to make quarterly tax payments during your second year as an independent contractor and each year thereafter. In Canada the rules are slightly different, and camgirls need not make quarterly tax payments unless notified to do so by Canada Revenue.

For further reading on taxes as they relate to camgirls (including independent camgirls), visit the tax authority website for your jurisdiction (eg: the IRS, HM Revenue & Customs or Canada Revenue  for American, UK and Canadian independent camgirls, respectively). Do not get caught in the misconception that just because we as independent camgirls do not receive earnings statements (such as 1099′s) from cam sites that we are free and clear of paying tax on our earnings. What we earn is traceable and it’s impossible to live a good life and plan (and save!) for your future without declaring your income. The risks of not doing so just aren’t worth it.

Skype Webcam Sex on Smart Phones and iPads

 

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Adapting To New Technology: Skype Webcam Sex in the Smart Phone Age

I find more and more frequently these days I encounter questions from both regular skype webcam sex playmates and new customers about the possibilities and limitations of using smart phones and iPads for skype webcam sex video calls. I had to educate myself a bit about this topic in order to provide helpful info to ‘my guys’, so I figured I’d also write about it here for any of y’all who are wondering about it as well…after all, if you’re on a smart phone you want to know whether you can actually use it for skype webcam sex before you purchase a cam sex show.

 

Skype Webcam Sex on iPads: Good to Go

I’ve actually used an iPad for skype cam sex in the past to good effect. Last summer when my beloved laptop was in the shop I used an iPad for a few of my skype calls, as I really hate being tied down to a desktop computer (my only other option for a few days). The good news is, iPads can give great audio and streaming video fee quality, but that quality is highly reliant upon the strength and speed of your internet connection. After all, if your internet gets wonky while you’re using a laptop you can simply plug in and ethernet cord, whereas iPads offer no such solution. As such, when using an iPad it’s doubly important to close out any uneccessary computer programs before beginning your skype video call. I have to say though, assuming your internet connection is decent I’ve had some surprisingly high quality skype video calls on an iPad, much better than I originally anticipated the quality to be.

Also, make sure you have a space to prop up your iPad before you begin the call, as during skype webcam sex the last thing you want to be thinking about is holding the tablet. That said, iPads are great for showing wicked angles and creative close-ups, so ‘moveability’ can also be a very good thing

 

Skype Sex and Smart Phones: Yes and No

In the matter of whether skype webcam sex and smart phones are compatible, the answer is: it depends. Different makes and models of smart phones have different capabilities when it comes to skype. As there are so many makes and models of Android-based smart phones on the market, I’d recommend doing a quick internet search to find out if your particular smart phone will support skype video calls. Simply search for “(insert smart phone here) and skype video calls” and you should easily find information relevant to your particular phone. I’ve done this myself on multiple occasions for guys who wonder if their particular smart phone will be compatible, and I’ve always found specific info readily available online with a quick internet search

While compatibility can be murky with Android phones, iPhones that are 3GS or newer and iOS 4.3 or higher do support skype video calls. If you’d like to use an iPhone for a video call but are unsure of how to go about it, skype offers a quick how-to guide that explains how to connect to a skype contact and perform a skype video call. Click here to check it out.

I know the technical shit can be a pain in the azz at times, but it’s better to find out before you purchase a cam show whether your smart phone can actually be used for skype webcam sex. I hope this little guide helps answer at least a few questions, and if your smart phone IS skype webcam sex compatible we should celebrate with some mind-blowing mutual orgasms, don’t ya think?

Skype Cuckold Play

 

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My Skype Cuckold, Cum Eating Corner Dweller

skype cuckold in lingerieI enjoy directing my skype cuckold to purchase lingerie, stockings and sex toys upon my orders, particularly when our toys and lingerie match. Even better is dressing him up, toying with him and having him beg on his knees to eat cum…mine, his, the cum off cocks that I’ve just fucked  He begs for cum not just because I order him to, but because I possess the power to control his mind and make him crave things he’d never typically desire. And so, as the world turns, another skype cuckold is created…this one with a burning desire for the taste of cum on his lips.

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Skype Cuckolds Are Rewarded For Obedience

I order my skype cuckold to sit in his corner and wait for me, while I’m fucking men IRL,skype cuckold submissive posing on webcam while I’m making man after man cum on skype, he waits patiently for me to finish because he has no choice. He loves to think about me pleasuring other men because I’ve programmed him that way, and he waits for permission to stroke MY cock because he gave that to me long ago. I even ordered him to buy a black leather studded collar to wear as a symbol of my ownership of it, of him.

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Even now as I write this, and no doubt while you read this, my skype cuckold will be sitting in his corner like the good cum eater he is, waiting patiently for me to grant him permission to stroke MY cock. Obedient skype cuckolds are rewarded, but only when I feel like doling out those special treats, so he may be waiting for quite some time. He’s growing accustomed to his corner, and can’t wait to find out what I have in store for him next 🙂

 

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